Why Not Love Marriage ?

Love, what is this I can't explain. I can't even say it is something or many thing. But it only love with is giving a new sensation in many's live. Someone is saying it love other is saying its a life. I will say love is life it is true whether you accept it or not.

Middle class people dominate the Indian society. Middle class is only section in Indian society which has responsibility for carrying all tradition of Indian society. It is true in all religion, all society. Rich left this tradition because they are ultra modern. Poor left because they can't carry this.

Globalization has also bring love culture in India. I will not discuss whether it is good or bad, but it is its time. A new changes in Indian families is that now they allow their children's to take higher education and prefer professional education. Families are allowing even girls to go for higher study and sending them to boarding schools and permitting them to go at new places for study and job.

So now they are living in a new environment where average people are around 30 and many are not married. So they started taking interest in each others. And here comes the parents.

Same parents which allowed their children's to go for higher education and do jobs now change their ground. I saw many so called modern families who did stop to showing themselves that they are very liberal and modern. But when it comes to marriage they will forget their modern life and become very conservative and orthodox. Parents will start counting problems and will take all possible measures to stop love marriage.

So why not love marriage? Even in some cases, boy and girl lost their lives because of parents. Parents are not ready to listen and understand their children's. They sometimes take such a sever action which ends with some murder and jail.

Parents think that it is their rights to choose spouse for their children's. In some cases, even if children's has choose well settled and same cast partner then also parents will create a lot of objections. They don't have logic except their ego.

When parent find out that their son or daughter is in love, they will suddenly arrange their marriage without looking things in detail. Sometime it success but most of times it finishes with end to some blood relationship.

I don't understand, why to oppose love marriage? After all new children's are adult and it is there moral and legal rights. Parents should try to understand that that now their children are mature enough to take some decision.